Our Blended
Family
(Under
Construction so PLEASE Check Back Often!)
Once again it
is NOT
AN ACCIDENT you
are here! We are so glad you have come to visit our site and we
welcome you with open arms and the love of Jesus!
Our vision for
Blended Families is to impart the message of Jesus Christ and
the knowledge that God has a distinct, predestined purpose for each
and every one of you and your family members. We have learned
through many years of happiness, sadness, joy, pain, loss,
triumph, trust, betrayal, and much more - That God absolutely is
in control of our lives and our destiny. All we have to do is let
go and let God!
We want to
help you through whatever struggles you may have - We want to hear
about your successes, your ideas, and most of all, we want to help
you become strong in the Lord and know that he has a perfect plan
for your lives.
We have come
to understand the true foundation of family - And while we are
always learning, we have come to understand how very important it is to
raise children up in the way they should go. We know that when we
put God first in our lives, and we teach our children this, that
they WILL become mighty men and women of God.
Many of us
today have been through divorce, separation, loss, and upset
caused by these. Society today dictates and teaches us that if we
aren't happy with our spouse, we can just go find a new one! And
while we're at it - ( remember we don't need to worry about how it
affects the kids or anyone else, just do it society says!) find two or three, and maybe even
explore that "Alternative Lifestyle" we have been
thinking about.
Well, we are
here to tell you that amidst all the evil that is in the world
today, there is hope! There is love, happiness, and much joy to be
had. God wants each of us to know his love is everlasting and
freely given - His grace and mercy is far beyond what we can
comprehend or imagine.
He wants us to
know that if we will allow him to work in our lives, we can come
through anything, and come through triumphantly!
My wife and I
have been together ten years now. Prior to our marriage, we had
both been divorced twice. I brought two wonderful children from two different
marriages, she brought three beautiful children from two more.
With
our marriage to each other, that makes SIX "I Do's " and
FIVE divorces!
Please
know I am in no way condoning divorce nor do we speak of it as an
appropriate avenue – We believe strongly in the marriage union
and in reconciliation as Gods BEST path for you. We just want you
also to know that we have “been there, done that” and through
it all have triumphed over the enemy and his MANY attempts in MANY
ways to bring us, our family, and our marriage down.
God has
blessed us with and placed us in charge of six wonderful boys, all
of which are becoming strong in the Lord. We have asked each of
them to contribute to construction of our ministry and our web
site so be sure to check back often as it is going to be growing,
Praise God!
Remember, our
children are a fantastic blessing from God - a powerful, precious gift that we must be ever
so careful to be sure we do the very best we can to help them be all
they can be and all that God has planned for them to become.
And, if you
were counting, we only mentioned five children and I stated we had
six. That is correct. We also have been blessed with and are
raising a half brother of one of my two son's - that makes six.
So, consider
this - We have six boys, and my wife and I. That is eight. Then,
we have the father of two of my wife's boys, and the father of her third boy. We are up to ten. Then we have the mother of my
youngest son, and his half brother, along with the mother of my
oldest boy and his step-dad. Now we are up to thirteen. My
youngest son and his half brother have another, younger brother,
and my oldest also has another younger brother.
Now we are up to fifteen!
While I could
go on, you can see that our "Blended Family" is somewhat
large, and the most amazing thing about it is this - We ALL GET
ALONG! We are friends, we help each other out, and we as believers
stand in the gap for unsaved members outside our immediate home
and believe for their salvation. We can and do Praise God that we
do not have the worries and upset associated with supervised
visits and restraining orders, we do not have the custody battles
and all of the things that the enemy ( AKA The DEVIL ) will use to
come against you and your family. Through the grace of God we have
come through many of these issues and Jesus has shown himself
mighty, and made our family strong in the Lord.
The bible says
that the demons TREMBLE when we even whisper the name of Jesus, so
you can imagine just how strong a family founded on the word of
God is! That doesn't just make them tremble, it CRUSHES the Devil
and his buddies like a bug!
While it has
not always been easy, we now know that God was bringing us to this
place - To this ministry so that we may share with you that it is
possible - That God IS THERE - That Jesus IS ALIVE AND WELL.
So, no matter
what your circumstance, no matter what your walk in life, or walk in
the Lord, no matter what challenges you are facing, and while we
praise God for all the triumphs you have, just know that God has a plan and a purpose for you and yours!
Divorce, step kids, ex husbands and ex wives, step-dads,
step-moms, step-brothers and step-sisters, uncles and aunts, on
and on, everyone IS A CHILD of God with a purpose in this world
and in Gods kingdom! God forgives our sins and our past, and makes
our crooked places straight. He places our feet on his best path,
and wants us to simply trust him and never doubt that he is in
complete control - If we will do that, he will show us the way -
AMEN!
Thank you again SO MUCH for coming and please feel free to
look around - This site is under construction and is updated
daily!
Wishing all of you Gods VERY BEST - We love and pray for you
and your family - We know that God has great things in store for
you and if you haven't already, we know that you will soon be
enjoying the BEST of God in the REST of God - AMEN Again!!
In God's Love,
Jim & Linda Carney and the Whole Carney Family!